signup codes: admin-issued invite codes + site /join redemption

Port the December signup-code feature to the 2020.03 branch.

While account creation is disabled, the only way in is now an
admin-issued single-use signup code, redeemed on the public site's /join
page. Because the 2020.03 watch login is device-id-bound with no code
field, a new device refused at the signups-disabled gate (PlatformLogin /
account create) is stashed in a PendingDevices table keyed by the real
client IP (CF-Connecting-IP aware). The /join page shows the player the
device their own client just reported; they enter code + username and the
account is minted bound to that device, so the next launch logs straight
in. No watch changes.

- SignupCodeEntity + PendingDeviceEntity; tables created via idempotent
  CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS at boot (Program.cs Postgres patch block +
  SQLite path) since they post-date the migration chain.
- SignupCodeService: generate / list / revoke / redeem + pending-device
  capture (single-use, expiry, revoke validation).
- Admin: GET/POST signup-codes + revoke endpoints and a Signup codes
  admin-ui page (generate with descriptor/expiry, status table, revoke).
- Public: anonymous /api/site/v1/join pending-devices + redeem, and a
  /join site page (+ header link).
- README documents the flow.

DorkNet.Server/site/src/components/Header.tsx

@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ const NAV = [
   { to: '/feed', label: 'Feed' },
   { to: '/players', label: 'Players' },
   { to: '/rooms', label: 'Rooms' },
+  { to: '/join', label: 'Join' },
 ];
 
 export function Header() {