fix: address the 15 CodeRabbit findings from the wire-audit review

Security:
- roomcode PUT now requires instance ownership (any player could plant
  or relocate codes on foreign private instances)
- /platformid/{accountId} requires auth (anonymous Steam/Oculus id
  enumeration oracle)
- request tracing no longer captures successful /thread bodies by
  default (chat messages landed unredacted in logs); opt in via
  Trace__SuccessBodyPaths
- anonymous action-link renewal clamped to 720h per consume

Data integrity:
- buyPurchaseReminder upserts its objective sentinel (second purchase
  threw UNIQUE after the wallet was debited)
- progression reward gift + idempotency sentinel commit in one
  transaction (crash between them double-minted the reward)
- ClubPermissionsGalleryAndModeration migration defaults corrected to
  the entity contract (CommentsJson '[]', ClubChatEnabled true); new
  one-shot ClubChatDefaultRepair migration fixes databases that
  applied the wrong defaults; bootstrap repairs '' CommentsJson rows
- admin subroom-maxplayers audit entry commits with the mutation
- account purge covers CustomAvatarItems (ownership deleted, created
  items reassigned to the system account)
- duplicate photo reports ignored while one is unresolved

Stability:
- bootstrap only swallows the expected duplicate-column error; locked
  databases and schema failures now fail startup instead of the first
  endpoint
- clone blob write failure degrades to an empty sub-room instead of a
  500 after the clone row committed
- resumed photo-feed cursor stamped DateTimeKind.Utc (Npgsql rejects
  Unspecified for timestamptz)
- unreadcounts queries per requested room instead of materialising the
  whole comment keyspace

Tests:
- destroys-the-probe-session template guard is case-insensitive

74/74 tests pass.

DorkNet.Server/Controllers/Link/LinkController.cs

@@ -223,7 +223,11 @@ public class LinkController(DorkNetDbContext db, ILogger<LinkController> logger)
 
         payload.Uses++;
         // AutoRenewHours present ⇒ the code renews rather than ages out.
-        if (req.ValidHours is > 0) payload.ExpiresAt = DateTime.UtcNow.AddHours(req.ValidHours.Value);
+        // Clamped: this route is anonymous and the value is client-supplied,
+        // so an unbounded renewal would let anyone holding the code extend
+        // its life indefinitely past what the creator chose.
+        if (req.ValidHours is > 0)
+            payload.ExpiresAt = DateTime.UtcNow.AddHours(Math.Min(req.ValidHours.Value, 720));
 
         var encoded = JsonSerializer.Serialize(payload);
         if (encoded.Length <= ValueLimit) row.Value = encoded;