fix: notification pushes now match what the 2023 client reads

Most pushes were still shaped for the 2020 watch, so the 2023 client
parsed them as empty or dropped them without any error.

- RelationshipChanged carries the relationship row, to both players, on
  friend request / accept / remove / add and on favorite / mute / ignore.
  Friend requests and accepts also land in the notifications inbox.
- ModerationKick uses the client's flat moderation block, with the
  reason in VoteKickReason (the only field the dialog shows).
- Bans, account deletion, password resets and second-session takeover
  are a Logout with a numeric reason instead of a kick to the dorm; the
  old string reason failed the client's parse.
- SubscribeToPlayers is honoured: each connection joins a presence group
  per subscribed player, and presence (only presence) reaches subscribers
  as well as friends. The hub allows 180 s of client silence, since the
  client reconnects at most 3 times per login.
- Admin broadcast sends its text as a coach message and can start the
  client's own maintenance countdown; ServerMaintenance only reads
  StartsInMinutes.
- ConsumableMapping, StorefrontBalance, gift, player event, level-up,
  RoomUpdate, profile-image and PlayerLeftChat pushes carry the client's
  DTOs. "Join rejected" is the client's RequestGameInvite message.

Contract in docs/recroom-2023-notifications.md; push frames are checked
by NotificationContractTests through a capturing hub context.

DorkNet.Server/Controllers/API/Inventory/InventoryController.cs

@@ -279,11 +279,11 @@ public class InventoryController(
         if (row.Quantity == 0) db.PlayerInventory.Remove(row);
         await db.SaveChangesAsync();
 
+        // A consume always changes an existing mapping, so it is always
+        // ConsumableMappingRemoved (71) carrying the count that is left;
+        // Added (70) would make the client treat it as a new stack.
         await notifications.NotifyAsync(pid,
-            row.Quantity > 0
-                ? PushNotificationId.ConsumableMappingAdded
-                : PushNotificationId.ConsumableMappingRemoved,
-            new { row.Id, row.ItemSlug, row.Quantity });
+            PushNotificationId.ConsumableMappingRemoved, ConsumableMappingWire(row));
         return Ok(new { row.Id, Count = row.Quantity });
     }
 
@@ -332,8 +332,7 @@ public class InventoryController(
         if (source.Quantity == 0) db.PlayerInventory.Remove(source);
         await db.SaveChangesAsync();
         await notifications.NotifyAsync(recipient,
-            PushNotificationId.ConsumableMappingAdded,
-            new { target.Id, target.ItemSlug, target.Quantity });
+            PushNotificationId.ConsumableMappingAdded, ConsumableMappingWire(target));
         return Ok(new { Success = true, SourceCount = Math.Max(0, source.Quantity), RecipientCount = target.Quantity });
     }
 
@@ -449,6 +448,24 @@ public class InventoryController(
         };
     }
 
+    /// <summary>ConsumableMapping push payload ("70" Added / "71" Removed):
+    /// exactly the client's mapping DTO <c>CGCALDBHLGD</c> (formatter
+    /// <c>JICIOMDBPDO</c>) — Id (Int64), ConsumableItemDesc (STRING, not an
+    /// object), Count, InitialCount, CreatedAt, ActiveDurationMinutes (Int32?),
+    /// IsActive, IsTransferable. The old <c>{Id, ItemSlug, Quantity}</c> parsed
+    /// as a mapping with no item and a count of 0.</summary>
+    public static object ConsumableMappingWire(PlayerInventoryEntity inv) => new
+    {
+        inv.Id,
+        ConsumableItemDesc = StoreService.TryGetConsumableItemDesc(inv.ItemSlug, out var desc) ? desc : inv.ItemSlug,
+        Count = inv.Quantity,
+        InitialCount = inv.Quantity, // the original purchase count isn't tracked
+        CreatedAt = inv.AcquiredAt,
+        ActiveDurationMinutes = (int?)null,
+        inv.IsActive,
+        IsTransferable = true,
+    };
+
     private static object ToConsumableWire(PlayerInventoryEntity inv, StoreItemEntity item)
     {
         var type = StoreService.TryGetConsumableItemDesc(item.Slug, out var consumableDesc)